Just guess how much money our family of four would have available to spend on food if we were getting food stamp benefits (which by the way has been renamed to SNAP)? $167/week. Yep, that is $42 more a week than what we are currently spending during this little 100 Days of Real Food on a Budget project. In all fairness we are also allowing ourselves to spend $20/week on eating out. But, even if we included that additional money (which we’ve barely used so far) it would still mean we fall $22 short of a family on food stamps. Must be nice…an extra 20 bucks or more a week would feel like a lot of money right now!
So back to what I’ve been buying on this super tight budget… As I mentioned the other day I got some items from Trader Joe’s, but I was not able to buy everything on my list. So I went to Earth Fare yesterday and tried to spend the least amount of money possible, which turned out to be $12.33. Not too bad, if I do say so myself. And here is what I got…
- 0.79 lbs dried garbanzo beans $1.73
- Heavy cream $2.99
- Bananas $0.70
- Fruit cup honeydew melon $1.58
- Head of garlic $0.50
- Mango $1.25
- Potatoes $3.09
- Shallot $0.25
- 3 lb Bag of apples – FREE!! Thanks to an Earth Fare coupon!
Here are the things I wanted to buy, but didn’t…
- Soy sauce – We are just low…not out completely so I will wait another week.
- Unsweetened coconut – We love having this in our granola recipe, but we can still eat it without the coconut so it had to be skipped.
- Frozen berries – I’ve unfortunately gone from fresh berries in my granola to mediocre frozen berries to now eating whatever fruit we have on hand (apples, bananas) in the morning.
- Tahini – Um, how could I have never noticed that this cost more than $7 a jar! Luckily, I could wait on this one too.
We just keep making sacrifices on this budget and some of them are of course a bigger deal than others. For example I can totally live without the coconut in my granola…but I still really miss my berries in the morning! One new thing I just noticed (since I now am documenting my shopping so nicely!) is that my husband asked me to buy coffee beans at Trader Joe’s earlier this week, and I had just bought him a ($9) bag when we first started this budget, which was only a few weeks ago. So I told him if we are going to limit everyone else’s milk consumption to save money he is definitely going to have to cut back on coffee. I don’t drink coffee myself (only a mocha with 1 small shot of espresso), and he didn’t used to drink coffee either up until a year or two ago. If he doesn’t start drinking less he might have to give it up all together…just like the old days!
There’s been a lot of discussion around here about the impending candy holiday that is coming up this weekend. I of course want my kids to participate in all of the Halloween fun, but I am trying not to let the junk overwhelm me along the way. Kids obviously get excited about trick-or-treating (which I wholeheartedly accept), but what about all of the other treats, school parties, and spider crafts made out of Oreos that lead up to the big event? I honestly don’t know what to do with all of the stuff they are bringing home, and that is if they even bring it home from school before they eat it. One of the few things I do feel like I have under my control is the night of trick-or-treating. We are absolutely going to let our girls trick-or-treat their little hearts out, it is just what we are going to do with all of the candy that will be different this year. After hearing this advice from several parents we’ve decided to let them keep 5 pieces of candy (of their choice!) and then we will “buy” the rest of the candy from them. Our kids are still little so we don’t expect them to get a ton. So we are thinking we will give them either one nickel or one dime per piece (oh, I need to go to the bank!), which they can then use to buy a toy with from the store. I have to say that my girls, who have both been given very limited candy over the last few months, are pretty darn excited about getting FIVE whole pieces of candy AND a new toy of their choice! I am not sure how many years this will work out for us so nicely, but at least for this Halloween we have a plan.
PS – For all those located in the Charlotte area…Earth Fare is offering a $5 off coupon (with $25 purchase) for all 100 Days readers! Here is the deal: 1. The offer is good at the Ballantyne and SouthPark locations, 2. Must pick up coupon before Nov. 10, 3. To get coupon you need to mention that you read this post: https://www.100daysofrealfood.com/2010/10/15/budget-day-12-a-real-happy-meal/ Yay! I can’t wait to get $5 off myself :)
Hi,
While I have had friends post some of your recipes on social media, I haven’t really checked out your blog until now. My husband and I are both disabled and receive social security benefits. We are in the process of renewing our food stamps, of which we received $179/month for the two of us. First, I will point out that we recognize SNAP benefits as supplementary financial assistance, but that doesn’t lessen the benefit of this assistance. We are both college students, and with my husband in his Masters, he has been trying desperately to find work in his field since before he graduated with his Bachelors this past Dec. One thing to keep in mind is that while some do certainly take advantage of the systems put in place to help those in need, there are those of us who truly need the help and are thankful for it. Moreover, not everyone receiving the help (including my husband and myself) plans to continue doing so for the remainder of our lives. There are those of us who are actually trying to better ourselves and be contributing members of society, even if society doesn’t recognize those of us with disabilities as such.
Prior to reading this post, I was going to consider emailing you privately to ask for any tips to begin eating more “real food”. We don’t have a Trader Joes, ETC in our area, and Walmart has been the most helpful store for receiving sighted assistance in shopping. However, since you have chosen to make your misconceptions about SNAP public, I don’t believe you would truly understand a situation such as the one we (and others) face. I certainly won’t take the time to detail all of our financial woes, but I might suggest walking a few miles in someone else’s shoes before assuming that their situation would be better than your own. You chose to be on a budget, and while I certainly commend (and agree with) this decision, some of us truly cannot afford the organic items and can easily believe that a “real food” lifestyle, while physically beneficial, couldn’t really be financially possible. For some of us, a budget isn’t a choice, but a necessity, and “budgeting” advice is laughable when a budget means you pay the minimal living expenses, and thank the Lord you were able to make it for another month.
Agree with you Mandy 100%
Mandy, my family of 5 is on SNAP for the same exact reasons you’ve laid out here, and I have noticed that we need to be careful not to buy into the very same shameful assumptions about food benefits that we are trying to cure others of. I think that if you look again at Lisa’s post, she isn’t maligning people who receive SNAP at all, but rather patting herself on the back for managing to scrape by on a budget that, unbeknownst to her, is even lower than the state finds to be sufficient to provide to those of limited income. I will admit that she is ever-so-slightly offensive when she says “must be nice…” but that isn’t the same as assuming that people on SNAP are layabouts taking the state for a free ride. I think some of us who are temporarily on SNAP are rev’d up to defend our right to take this state assistance. I know my husband makes the argument about once a month (to me, alone) that he gave his 8 years to the military and needs the additional assistance if he’s going to be able to take advantage of the GI Bill, bla bla bla… No one is actually accusing him of being a leech, but the very act of asking for help makes him ashamed. It shouldn’t. The state is investing in us, and gets a great return on its investment. I’m sorry this subject is a sensitive one for you, but I hope that you can (almost a year later, albeit) take a second look at this situation and see that you’re not being judged. There is no reason to reject the possibility of eating whole and healthy foods on SNAP. I’ve personally never eaten so many fresh fruits and vegetables as we have on benefits. However, I don’t stick to an all-organic diet. (Sorry, Lisa, not the perfect defense, I know! That’s up to you!)
So, we had a Halloween fairy visit our house!
They could pick 5 pieces ,but had to leave the rest of the candy on the table. The next day in exchage for the candy they got a one of the bigger sized nerf guns. They loved it!! The next year while out trick or treating they asked if the holloween fairy would visit again. Done no more dealing with loads of candy again and they still enjoyed trick or treating!!
That is such a wonderful idea!
Thanks for sharing!!!!!!